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This is incredible thank you so much !!!!

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Hi Mark. I reallt love your videos. I am a new counsellor ans just learning to find my feet. U had a depressed client recently but it wasnt thr best experience. What do you do when a client doesnt engage? He stayed for 30 minutes and felt tired and wanted to leave. He had no goals or interests and no significant special relatiionships. He could not think about whay he wanted for his future- not even for 2 weeks time. Whwre do you go when a client is quite avoidandant? It was like the lights were on but no one was home. Any tips? I was struggling to make any impact or get a conversation going. It felt like a lack of emotion....

The 2nd technique reminds me of the DBT concept of vulnerability in a behaviour chain analysis. What old history is showing up right here, and is the history affecting us? Ex: Someone asked for support in the past but was met with reprimand from their supervisor. This may be a pattern in their life when they ask for support When they want to ask for support with a manager who appears friendly they are highly apprehensive due to their past history.

Anxiety and depression are soul destroying. If I do manage to sleep a few hours I HATE waking up coz the cycle begins again. Awful feeling in my chest and its fight or flight 24/7. No respite. No relaxed periods. Its relentless and all consuming and its really hard to explain to someone who hasnt experienced it. You dont enjoy ANYTHING.. you dont look forward to ANYTHING. You dont eat, barely sleep .... Its so easy to delve into suicidal thoughts as a way to escape the exhaustion of it. Its unbearable!

I think depression is caused by lying people who take away our faith in humankind.

Jane, I miss you with all my heart and soul!

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Hope I get better

Well said! 👏👏

Amazing video! I can relate in many ways. Thank you for discussing these vulnerable moments and finding and sharing the solutions that work! 🙏🏼😃

I get your weekly emails and got this one about “hoarding” today. Love all your writing and teachings!! THANK YOU!🙏🏼

Shit like this makes me never ever want to be in a relationship again

Hoarding Backfires

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Fascinating as usual, I never thought about the trauma hoarders are trying to bury

As someone who does home health physiotherapy, I am so amazed at this video and your ability to help this client to achieve all that in such a short space of time seems quite miraculous!! It’s so wonderful to know it can be treated

Please make more content on this unique, though seemingly common disorder. I find it fascinating, but hard to understand why/how it impacts a person to the degree to which it does. More of your insight is requested.

thank you very much for this helpful video! Greetings from Greece!

Interesting topic. Very knowledgeable.

This is advice for a normal relationship not a toxic narcissist one.

It's stigmatizing to call a person a "hoarder" just as it's stigmatizing to call a person an "addict". People have disorders, they don't become the disorder. The disorder is not their intrinsic identity.

I worked with quite a number of hoarders in the United States some years ago. Most were women and many had also experienced physical and or sexual violence from their partners who had served in the military during the Vietnam and Korean wars.

Very interesting! Thank you!

This is Awesome!!

greed may be a fear of inadequacy…which is a false fear.

Nice of you to visit a client at home. I think the stage at which the 'to be discarded' box is filled is the most tricky if it does not leave the house strait away! It is really helpful to have a friend help with this. Often it is not as simple as taking it down the charity shop...

Got a friend who buys DVDs (many doubles and trebles) from charity shops and spends £1000s on state of the art TVs every few months. His place is rammed full. There is nowhere to stand. When I talk of throwing stuff out it’s never the DVDs.

Nice one

Great thinker I truly resonate with what he is saying

You just tell it like it is! Almost as.. you actually want to help. Got prescribed things before they were absolutely useless as I thought they would be.

Been using Hypnosis for decades, it's done f%ck all for my PTSD, trouble is there are a lot of people claiming to have had PTSD , some will be faking it for business reasons, such as to get in clients for hypnosis at £100 an hour for a session of therapy!

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Yes, but not being liked isn't the worst that can happen. I fear falling over and getting broken, because it's happened once, I'm in England, our health service is chaos, my local hospital trust is very poor. A friend who did fall recently ended up in the local hospital, and the care was so poor she had a stroke. Three months later she is still not rehabilitated and can't manage her life any more. In my mind that is something very real indeed. I'd like to be certain it won't happen to me!!

Any mental health illness or disease is complex and genetic factors as a reason for causation cannot be definitively ruled out.

But guys beware of injuries during exercise. Take it easy and slowly. Having to stop because of injuries makes things more depressing

Thank ypu so much, Mark...I hoped for this result for a long time, not being a scientist !🎉

I believe that almost everyone can experience a clinical depressive episode under the right circumstances, add enough stress, emotional turmoil, anxiety and so on and almost anyones brain will buckle if the pressure is high enough. That said, will everyone experience a clinical depression? Probably not. Most people will experience loss, grief, periods of low mood due to external or internal issues, but the people who experience severe clinical depression seems to be more prone to it due how they were raised, life history, their personality, and to some degree their genes. It's a mixed bag of factors that seems to add up to something more than just genes.

No, it's caused by rumination of self-disempowering thoughts. The rumination is not always conscious, and it can be so overpowering because it is tangled with powerful emotions relating to the self, that people developed in childhood or in times of higher emotional impressionability.

Not much help this weekend I am sorry to say. I just live with knowing I am experiencing something different than others.

After 2 years of searching I have given up on finding meaning.

I have slacked off on the gym and cycling, but I still do yoga at home with my husband almost every night, by way of UA-cam or Amazon Prime. I think it helps to keep me from sinking further into depression. I rarely leave the house, but I go out to see live music about once 😮a month, which is nice because the audience is energized but peaceful. It's amazing to pick up the vibe of the crowd.

I believe that one can surmise that these patterns of language usage are not a perfect correlation or a binary one. In other words, it's not "either/or" as it might imperfectly mirror one's state of mind on a spectrum or multi-spectral dimension. Moreover, absolutisms may indeed be fitting in a given context and the over-emphasis on achieving ambiguous values or thinking can become a goal in and of itself due to it being correlated to a "healthy" mind - thus undermining an individual's intellectual honesty and moral integrity. Lastly, will the findings/conclusions expressed in this video become a set of desired outcomes in a psychological/psychiatric clinical setting where a person is not deemed "cured" or "mentally healthy" unless they meet those standards? Will patients feel that they are being punished or discriminated against if they are caught up in such a system? And will those opinions be, in turn, used against them as well? It reminds me a lot of Alexander Solzhenitsyn's writings.

This is my husband. Life long runner and depressive type. Running keeps him sane. I wondered if it was a come down from the endorphine rush that running gave him. Not sure if that is a thing though. Thank you for your exceptional advice. One of your videos was played in my class today and I use your insights to help me in my own private practice.

Recently my wife was killed in front of me because I couldn't do anything as a result of hostage I found myself in,since that I'm not well mentally, physically everything I'm no well,I miss her terribly.

I appreciate the highlighting of current research, ty

😮Had a girl friend. Frequently said, "You always... You never.." Yes, she suffers with depression.

This is gold, even though it is so difficult to achieve. Thank you once more for your enlightening words.

So everyone who believes in religion is depressed 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯 explains why I just said everyone lol. Mark 14:51-52. Jesus caught in a public park with a nekked underage boy. UA-cam Lady Babylon. Dude has a PhD in Greek and reads it right from the text.

Genius!!! Thank you!